Daily Soultonic by Dr Sandra C. Duru | When you’re at the end of your rope, tie a knot and hold on.

I had a very deep thought that made me consider it very important to share today’s SOULTONIC with some people who are desperate for one thing or the other or desperate to get back at those who have caused them pains in life and to those desperate to take one action to end some ugly situations and people who have in one way or the other messed up their lives, businesses, career, reputation, and their families.

Desperation is loss of hope and surrender to despair; it’s a state of hopelessness leading to rashness and most times caused by hurtful words, behaviors, actions, poverty, sickness, miscarriages, cheating, setbacks, intimidation, hate, injustice, humiliation, pains, unemployment, racism, neglet, homelessness, divorce, horrible experiences with a narcissist, constant victimization and undermining by manipulative people who don’t want to see you do well or grow. Yes, all these things listed above and many more ugly situations may want to mess up your mind to start thinking, “Oh God, what’s wrong with me? Why does nothing ever work out?”. Once you have been played into this corner of self-pity or hopelessness, your mind is completely messed up, caged, and will be ready for easy access to all sorts of manipulations, lies, negative influences, thoughts and desperation kicks in.

You may start to think about how to eliminate those people hurting you or making them pay for their evilness. You may be desperate to want to get them down at all costs. You may be desperate to take some rash decisions, yes! Desperation is a state of hopelessness leading to rashness. Some people may even want to take their own lives and some become depressed and all their dreams will be messed up, just for granting the wrong people and the things that do not matter access to their minds.

Remember that desperation could lead to anxiety and depression. Yes, could cause you mental distress, agony, and disheartenment if you don’t tie the knot and hold on whenever you find yourself at the end of the rope…And if your gun is loaded, please do not pull the trigger. Taking any life at this point isn’t necessary and it’s not warranted. Like Abraham Lincoln said, ” when you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on”.

One of my favorite authors, Anthony St. Maarten, in one of his books, Divine Living: The Essential Guide To Your True Destiny talked about how such ugly situations and evil people could be blessings in disguise to your life journey. Life lessons are fuel-saving tools for success and survival.

If we never experience the chill of a dark winter, it is very unlikely that we will ever cherish the warmth of a bright summer’s day. Nothing stimulates our appetite for the simple joys of life more than the starvation caused by SADNESS or DESPERATION. In order to complete our amazing life journey successfully, it is vital that we turn each and every dark tear into a pearl of WISDOM, and find the BLESSING in every battle, bad situations, mistreatment, and every curse.

You are an enlightened soul, you are equipped with the power to design an authentic new life of happiness and fulfillment, and be inspired to make a real difference in the world.

We are all used to skincare, hair care but we don’t take our spiritual self-care exercises seriously to prepare us for a truly awakened and abundant life. Awaken your divine self.
Achieve your soul purpose.
Accomplish your life calling.

Yes, it’s time to discover the deeper meaning and purpose of your life and reclaim your true destiny. And you can’t achieve that by polluting your mind with what ignorant people have said and still saying, what people who do not matter in your life have written and still writing, what uninformed people who don’t even know you are thinking about you. You can’t achieve that by allowing them access to your life, your mind, and your business. Like Albert Einstein said; ” the world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.” It’s your life, your world, your journey and you don’t want to give anyone the opportunity to mess with your mind. Preserve your mind and your world will not fall apart. It is the new way of being that changes your life and perception of reality forever.