My dear Mgbeke, Maybe it was just yesterday, or a month ago or if you’re lucky its been a while. Either way you’ve likely had someone tell you your idea couldn’t be done, that you cannot make it in life, or you are a born looser.
Have you ever wondered why someone would make such a bold statement?
More often than not these folks aren’t intentionally trying to steal your dreams. A lot of times it is a case where they’re trying to apply their own abilities and skills as to whether they could achieve the particular idea or not. They tend to weigh your ideas on your their experience scale and measure your mind on their knowledge capabilities, In doing so, it becomes a bit humbling. Rather than simply saying they don’t believe they could accomplish it, it’s easier to simply brush the entire idea itself off as unachievable.
Now pay attention;
Friend, this is why it becomes so very important to get opinions from various sources. While it is important to have people that can look at things from a “realistic” perspective, don’t discount the opinions of those that dream big dreams! In combining both views you’ll inevitably find a happy medium, and in the process I am certain you’ll achieve BIG things!
Finally
Trusting yourself is one of the most helpful things you can do for you in your life. It can help build your confidence, allow others to trust you more, and make the process of decision making much easier. To trust yourself, all you need is to make a little effort, create self-love, and find the ability to look inward.
