You need to say NO to anger, pains, negativity, unforgiveness, bitterness, depression, anxiety, fear, and all what not. When so many familiar and unfamiliar people abandon you, reject you, cheat you, gossip you, betray you, mock you, blackmail you, hate you, laugh at you…It doesn’t mean that you are dumb, foolish, careless, unintelligent, very weak, or a bad person.
When you are the victim, It simply means that you’re a very PECULIAR PERSON. YOU ARE VERY UNIQUE and A VERY SPECIAL PERSON. It means that you are a great source of connection, energy and survival to them all who treated you badly, even when they know that you deserved better. They need you to be where they are, they need you to be seen and heard, and you’re just fulfilling destinies, and you have nothing to lose for living your purpose in life as designed by God Almighty, and for doing good.
Don’t ever think that it’s a curse or a spell. It’s neither a curse nor a spell, it’s a huge blessing. All you need to do is take a very good advantage of every single opportunity and experience and convert them into impact-driven and focus-driven energies to move forward in the right direction to your expected destination without any form of anger, fear, regrets or even feeling bad about the lessons learned from your encounter with such toxic people. You can only get better, wiser, greater, happier, stronger, more successful and richer in life, don’t you think so?
For everyone who crosses your path in the long journey of life, there’s a great lesson to learn from him or her and its not by accident that your path crossed or that you met, it was divinely designed to happen and to make you better and stronger. So, pick up the best lessons, integrate them into your daily activities and see yourself living your purpose in life.
Learn to step down with a glass of your favorite wine, look at yourself in the mirror and smile at your own mistakes, weaknesses, strength, good and bad decisions and tell that great person you are looking at in the mirror that, ” hey, I got this under control and I will fix it smartly with no drama and no tears. It will never happen again and I will not go down, but higher, wiser and better.
Life is vanity. Life is interesting and Life is the survival of the fittest. Enjoy every bit of life.