Nobody can help you develop yourself, except you.
Nobody can stop you but yourself and only you can help yourself, so stop stopping yourself.
When you overvalue what you are not and undervalue what you are, you will give the wrong people the rights to validate you, your life, discourage you, distract you and even have the opportunity to mess with your mind. When this happens, you will have too many people in control of your life, your decision making, and they’ll have the power to stop you from becoming who you are born to be. Your dreams will be shattered and you can no longer envision your mission, your goals and your dreams. You will no longer be able to focus on your vision. Your time and energy will be spent on frivolities, defending yourself, negativities and unproductive ventures.
You need to find courage to start and remain consistent in the pursuit of your dreams. Maybe, you are terrified that if you finally start acting on your dreams, you might end up falling. And you know what? You might or you might not. You might discover that this thing, this dream you have always fantasized, is exactly what you are meant to be, thereby becoming exactly who you were born to be, all because you dug up the courage to try and nobody can get you to dig up the courage to get your life back or get your life moving forward in the right direction, except you and you only.
In life, no one and nothing will help you until you start helping yourself.