Daily Soultonic by Dr Sandra C. Duru | The Importance of Having a SHARED **vision of success** in your Relationship

A soul mate is the one person whose love is powerful enough to motivate you to meet your soul, to do the emotional work of self-discovery, of awakening.” —Kenny Loggins

Falling in love is awesome. In the early days of a romantic relationship, we can’t get enough of each other. There is lot of physical attraction. Before we know it, we commit to each other. It’s likely that important questions haven’t been asked.

One of the most important questions couples should ask themselves is how they define success. Are you planning on making your career a major part of your life? Is having children a big part of your plan? You’d be surprised how many couples make major life-long commitments to each other without really discussing these obvious goals.

If she doesn’t see her DREAM in your VISION, you are not compatible and you will never be.

When it comes to where to live, kids, and marriage, finding a compromise can be damn near impossible.

At some point, future plans will become more pressing and require decisions that impact your life together such as living together, financial investments and life-changing events such as having a baby, opening a business, Tavelling E.t.c

If you are faced with this dilemma, you both can either chose to work through it, or break up. But before making a decision, you have to sit down and candidly discuss everything with your partner.

The first thing is to start an honest conversation to bring your partner in on what’s going on for you — what you’re seeing and experiencing inside yourself, Be honest about how your vision or goals might be shifting from where you were before and what’s important to you about new ones.

If you both fundamentally disagree on huge life goals, you may have to part ways.

“Too many drastic differences like this, and you won’t have a future,