Life is very interesting and sweet, if only we have the Passcode to our path. When we understand how best to live life, it becomes very enjoyable and stress free. We tend to complain more about what is happening to us and we are not paying enough attention to what we are going to gain from the process. Like my late father, Sir B.C Duru always said to me, no pain, no gain. Every good thing must go through a process. It’s that process that many of us see and encounter as problems, situations, tough times, ordeals, pains, trials, setbacks etc.
Many have suffered a lot in life, from being abandoned, denied, rejected by one or both of their parents, their families, friends, to physical, emotional and psychological abuse. Some people became very depressed and ended up having nervous breakdown due to the traumatic experiences they suffered from cyberbullying, constant abuse, harrassment, discrimination, failed marriage and divorce, racism, isolation, violence, segregation and so many other ill treatments meted out to them that made them traumatized. We need to know what these things are happening to us because we are going through a life process that will either make us better or worse, depending on how we manage the situations or handle the life process and our natural attitudes to life.
I want to remind you that Jesus Christ was rejected, lied against, humiliated and abandoned. Joseph was badly treated by his own siblings. He was sold by his brothers and his siblings plotted evil against him. They hated him so much for his supernatural gifts, but after all they did to him, he eventually he lived his purpose. They couldn’t stop him from living his purpose in life. They only help his process of becoming the person God Almighty Has created him to be.
In your trials lies your purpose. In your troubles lies your success. In your humiliation lies your glory. In your oppression and persecution, you will find the right ladder to climb into your beautiful opportunities and into your greatness.
Let me tell you something about the tricks you don’t know about NATURE, nothing happens in our lives without a cause or a direction or even without any reason. Some happen to fulfill destinies and others happen to redirect us to our expected destinations in life.
It’s time you stop asking , ” why me?” ” why did they reject me, why do they hate me so much?” We have all felt unloved, abandoned, rejected and even very lonely, at some point in our lives. But, that’s not who we are and what defines our true life and our destinies. When this happens, the way we handle it determines how badly we come out of it and how undamaged we can get out of this very ugly situation.
Do you know that you have nothing to worry about when things happen to you? When you worry about things that are happening to you, instead of being strong and working on the best way to get your life together, you will sink deeper into that problem. But, if you see it as a natural process of life, you will apply natural approaches to solving the problems smartly and you will remain in good mental state till the end. Then, you will live to tell your stories, learn from your mistakes, experiences and even become a better person.
Yes, I know that you are experiencing some hardship, disappointments, miscarriages, setbacks and some other problems, including financial crisis and all you want is a fast way out, but you have forgotten that life itself is a process.
That your travel insurance, invitation, visas, tickets that never arrived.
That scholarship that wasn’t successful.
That job you lost or that never happened or that you were denied.
That wife or husband who walked out of the marriage when you were busy building the marriage, your home, sacrificing everything to make it work.
That marriage that was canceled.
That promotion that you were denied
Those family members who lied against you, abused you, abandoned you, rejected you, isolated you, disrespected you, denied you of your rights, disinherited you
Those friends who mocked you, ganged up against you, conspired against you, accused you falsely, witnessed against you, caused you pains, setbacks and celebrated your downfall
That supervisor who wrote bad reviews or reports about you, who did everything to frustrate you, who did everything to make sure you quit your job
That ‘bestfriend’ who was so envious of your relationship and did everything to destroy your relationship
That rent or mortgage payment you missed that caused you to lose your home
Now, I want to tell you the hidden truth, if one or more of the things listed above didn’t happen to you, you could have been a dead person or you wouldn’t have been where you are today. Nobody comes into our lives by accident. And nothing happens to us outside of our life journeys. Just be calm, resilient, strong, apply wisdom and try to decode the password or passcode for your greatness. Your password is right within your trials. Don’t be carried away with the trials or pains, find the passcode, open the next level and move forward into your happiness, abundance, peace, greatness, success and start living your purpose in life.
Everything happened to you for so many good reasons for your own good. Pick up your Passcode and access the path to your greatness, peace, success and happiness.
Stop complaining about everything, just search for the passcode to your life path.