Living in your past mistakes is like living in bondage. Simply forget the ugly, unpleasant, horrible, traumatic past and forge towards the future. Stop wasting your time and energy trying to fix the situation that you MIRACULOUSLY survived without losing your life. The only thing you can ever really do is keep moving forward without any fears or regrets. You can get the present right, make the future better from the lessons learned from your past mistakes and your experiences.
Take that big leap forward without hesitation, without looking back, and without any fears. Don’t ever think of looking back or excavating the past. Excavating the past isn’t an adventure, it’s more akin to tearing a band-aid off an open wound and you know the painful feelings, right? You need to leave the wound to heal and allow the scar to remind you that you have to keep moving forward as a survivor on a journey to your expected destination.
Yes, it’s important to allow your old ugly part to fall off and you nurture the new beautiful part of you to rise and shine.
When you find your present satisfying and beautiful, you will have no choice but to forget the past and free your mind to have enough space to accommodate the good news, the good people, the good feelings, the sweet memories, and greater successes waiting at the entrance of your new life.